Domina Elle - Pro Domme Mistress Denver Colorado:>                            Are you curious? 

I am Domina Elle, a well established and highly experienced Dominatrix and fetishist.

I am also known as 'The Balloon Mistress' because I love playing with latex balloons and you might be surprised all the sexy things you can do with balloons! This is strictly grownup playtime! I am an adult play facilitator! (ask yourself now if you could use some PLAY. Admit it- you DO.)

Be sure to read through my Bondage Forum which features recent photos and updated information.

I am a very enthusiastic sex positive adult play facilitator- a Dominatrix. I also refer to myself as a 'Dominant Surrogate'. I believe a session with a Dominant such as myself should be positive, sexy, educational, as well as therapeutic.

I am a Dominatrix and Fetishist who thoroughly enjoys a myriad of BDSM play. I am into Latex Fetish, Leather, Suspension, Corporal, OTK, CBT, Light to Extreme Bondage, Chastity, Spanking, Flogging, Balloon Fetish, inflatables, Sploshing, Cross Dressing, Medical scenarios and role-play, foot and boot/shoe fetish, Caning, Slave Training, Forced Feminization, nylon fetish, scenarios involving your total loss of control and mobility, public scenarios, group scenarios, extended sessions, and many other Fetish Interests.

I approach each person/couple and the scenario involved as being completely unique.

My fully equipped play studio / dungeon is centrally located in Denver Colorado. My dungeon is a playground for the adult imagination!

My play studio is discreet, and is one of the most fully equipped in Colorado (and elsewhere according to my many clients who have seen Dommes all over the world). Some of my equipment includes: 12 foot suspension frame with electric winch, stocks, tall standing cage, St. Andrews cross, spanking saddle, a wide variety of clinic equipment, exam tables, gurney, bondage tables, bondage chair, VAC-bed for extreme bondage and a myriad of implements.

If you are interested in seeing more photos of me, I do have quite the gallery on www.fetlife.com. my profile is Domina_Elle.

Fetlife is a bdsm networking site also known as the facebook of bdsm. I participate in fetlife as a member of the worldwide kink community. I prefer having a gallery where people must register in order to access it in order to assist in keeping underage persons from accessing material that is not age appropriate. Fetlife is a free site to join. I enjoy fetlife as the worlds largest 'live' encyclopedia of kink, bdsm, and all things fetish. The 'Fet' community provides a view into human sexuality that is very unique.

I Truly Enjoy Being A Dominatrix!

I love facilitating 'fantasies' into 'realities'!

Once you get up the nerve to call, you will find that I am very easy to talk with and will put you at ease once, however do not let my personable disposition lead you to believe I may be 'too nice'. Quite frankly I want you to relax, much like a little bug stepping onto my web making itself at home before the black widow comes in for the kill (hahaha, just kidding.........sort of).

It is important that boundaries of trust and safety be established right away.

For me, being dominant is my natural state of being, something I am with or without bdsm. I am in no way your stereotypical Dominant; I have been told by many of the kinky people / submissives that I have met, that I have a very unique approach.

I am very intuitive and love being able to communicate without words. I deeply enjoy the psychological aspect of Domination. I am very sensual, playful, direct, uninhibited, I have a wonderfully wicked imagination, and I simply will not engage in a session that I know will not excite me, or that I find to be unhealthy. you will know that I am genuinely enjoying myself as I am commanding the scene, as I tend to be very expressive! To sum it up, I want us to have an excellent time together and that is an important factor.

Every session should be a special event. The session should be engaging, exciting, erotic, fun, and an escape from the norm. I also intend for it to be therapeutic and an escape from the stress of daily life. I invite you to read the bondage forum on this site, where I explain in detail how important it is for people to get much needed 'down time' when they are dealing with a lot of stress.

A first time session can never be repeated. There is only one first time! Be it your first time with me, or your first time with any Mistress / Dominatrix. I plan on making all subsequent sessions no less exciting and unique as the first.

Once you decide you would like to speak with me about scheduling a session, give me a call.

I also ask that you sit down and write an email to me, including thoughts regarding what you would like to experience, as well as any fantasies you have enjoyed. Send your writing to elle@dominaelle.com. This is not a hard requirement, however it is very helpful. Do not ASK for illegal services on the phone or in any emails you send me.

Feel free to call me between the hours of 10am and 11pm only.

When you call, I will ask questions regarding what your interests and limitations are; I will inform you of my interests and my limits.

I do not list my fee here. My fee is reasonable and I am happy to discuss it with you when you call. You will need to call me for this information. I do not play money games. I have a flat fee based on the duration of the session, tips are welcome but not necessary.

Once you have scheduled a session I ask that you be on time, not early and not late. Please call if you need to cancel, reschedule or if you are running late. I certainly understand that things happen and I appreciate people who respect my tme and energy.

I reserve the right to go over the time since I get totally entranced in what I am enjoying. Be sure to tell me if you have to be somewhere. I am not a clock-watcher. I enjoy extended or all day sessions. Over night sessions are possible under certain circumstances.

I enjoy a wide range of fetishes though I do not engage in anything that I find unhealthy or destructive or that which is illegal.

I am a very engaging Dominant, I will push you. I will take you to the next level.

If you are not into pain, I will respect this. Many people are not interested in experiencing pain (imagine that). I do enjoy exploring boundaries with a masochist when I find them! Pain, when employed in a bdsm scenario is not something I take lightly or approach carelessly.

Yes means yes, no means no, maybe means: lean into it. When a person is new to bdsm, they are still exploring and discovering what their limits may or may not be. This is one reason communication is so important. We will always communicate before a scenario begins and throughout you should feel that you can express what you feel. Everything is consensual or it is not taking place. I have my own set of boundaries and limits.

My Dungeon is well equipped. I possess much of the standard Dungeon equipment you would hope to find, as well as some pieces that are very unique. I want you to enjoy the environment knowing you are safe being there, but in addition I want you to forget where you are, allowing me to take you into a deep level of subspace.

Most important, more important than any equipment I could have, is my imagination. I am one of the most innovative and creative Dominatrices you could meet and I can't wait to confirm this for you!

There is more to know about me, and much more for us to explore and enjoy. I hope to hear from you soon!

~Domina Elle

And I Truly Enjoy Punishing A Submissive
I adore having my subject being completely helpless, strapped and tied before me.

She knows she is now mine. Her flesh has become my playground and creation and I act accordingly with my wonderfully wicked collection of devices and instruments.

All this added with my highly liberated and naughty imagination becomes a sublime scenario of pleasure and pain from which there is no escape.

She slides into subspace ever so easily, my willing and trusting partner...

Time is frozen now. Nothing exists but the energy and connection between my body and the helpless form under my control.

It is a bittersweet pleasure for her, and I am thoroughly enjoying ripples of pleasure over and over until suddenly I have to come down back into reality.....awe shucks.

Was she a good girl? If yes, she gets a sweet reward. I believe in the reward system as well as strict discipline.

If she has not been a good girl, she will be *punished* and will have to do better next time. And yes, there will be a next time.

This is about power EXCHANGE. When I dominate someone no matter what the scenario involves, a healthy power exchange between consensting adults should be absolutely liberating and therapeutic! This is PLAY, the kind of play that allows people to explore their most intimate feelings in a safe environment with a trusted and experienced guide. It's called PLAY for a reason y'know!

More About Your Mistress: My Background & Influences

I was born in Oklahoma (when I lived there I was always being asked what country I was from, lol) I was very much an artist and was involved in music and theater. I attended Booker T. Washington school for the talented and gifted before earning a full scholarship to attend Parsons school of Design N.Y.C.

While living in N.Y.C., I worked as a fashion model appearing in Details magazine, N.Y. Fashion magazine, Japanese television, Italian Vogue and performed in numerous East Village fashion shows for local designers such as Betsey Johnson.

In addition I worked as an artist doing installations in various nightclubs such as club El Mundo (The World) and the Limelight Club in both N.Y. and London, while dancing until 10am almost every night. I worked as hostess in the V.I.P. lounge at club El Mundo. I appeared in Coke-a-Cola commercial as an extra (which is where and when I met Mike D of the Beastie Boys. He would know me as 'Eddy Wolfgang' which is the name I used when I modeled in NYC). I used to get the Beasties drink passes (lol) when we all hung out at the notorious Danceteria club. The Beastie Boy's personal photographer 'Ricky Powell' featured me in his book 'Public Access' which is a collection photos of people living and playing in the East Village in the 80's. Ricky is an amazing photographer who basically documented the evolution of Hip Hop. He is known as the fourth Beastie Boy. I lived in NYC during that era and I am proud to be featured in such a collection. At that time I also worked posing as a mannequin in an East Village clothing store modeling the designs of artist Peter Max. His clothing designs at were made of PVC and some were inflatable! I am currently trying to find some of these pieces, please let me know if you are aware of where I might get my hands on some.

I hung out in the East Village during the eighties and was one of the 'club kids'. Andy Warhol often frequented the club's VIP room, and somewhere in his Estate are photos of your's truly that he took, I would love to see them.

I moved to London England at age 21, where I was first introduced to latex and ended up absolutely loving it (craving it might be a better way to put it). I was walking down King's Road and wandered into a little shop where latex was being sold. I will never forget it. I wanted some sooooo bad!!

I worked as a receptionist and on the art staff at Club Limelight, London.

In 1987 I became a massage therapist specializing in deep tissue massage and myofascial release. I discovered that people hold their stress in their bodies along with other forms of trauma (emotional and physical). The work I do as a pro domme is an extension of what I did as a massage therapist only this is a LOT more fun and deals with sexuality which is a very important aspect of a persons over all well being. I continued this work until I became a pro Dominatrix over ten years ago.

I lived and worked in Kings Canyon National Park at age 24 for six months. I love those big old trees!

I love music, especially dance music such as break beats, electro, dubstep, funky beats and other techno beats. I also love 80's techno. I often like classical music during my sessions.

I enjoy theater, going to museums and eating excellent food. My favorite local dining in Denver is Vespa's.

I collect robots, designer vinyl toys, objects in the shapes of hands, hearts, and eyes. I LOVE kitchen applainces and tools, especially antique kitchen items such as odd cookie cutters. I also collect balloons and inflatables from all over the world not to mention LATEX clothing.

I also collect original art by other artists.

My favorite flowers are the Morning Star Glory as well as the Orchid.

I prefer milk chocolate.

My favorite foods are Mexican and Italian (spicy like ME).

I love to sing and you might catch me singing when I am playing in the dungeon (in my youth I performed at CBGB's as well as the legendary Cains ballroom).

I love to create art (fetish and otherwise). When I paint I use airbrush, spray paints and acrylics, I also love colored pencil work.

I spend a great deal of time researching a variety of topics. I am so thankful to Al Gore for creating the Internet!!! (Of course I am being sarcastic) Some of the topics I enjoy: science, metaphysics, quantum physics/mechanics, string theory, religion and spirituality of all kinds, the ocean and ocean life, art, world cultures, BDSM, human sexuality, sex workers rights, psychology, law, ancient civilization, U.F.O.s, images from space, Clemetine Satellite images, Nasa STEREO images, different theories and philosophies about life, the origins of life, the mysteries of life, LIFE! haha. In fact, my brain can't get emough! I LOVE LEARNING!

I love visiting 'Fetish Planet' but I do not 'live' there 24/7. Life needs balance and perspective as well as priorities. I believe that all beings are connected and that the more consciously and responsibly that we live, the better life will be for us as a species. And no matter what our differences are....

I wish people were telepathic. There would be no lies and deceptions.

I moved to Denver over 10 years ago. I love Denver! It has the charm of a small town and the intensity and culture of a larger city. I love the architecture found in Denver.

I am a people person, it's very easy for me to build a connection with those I engage.

I have lived a very adventurous and interesting life and it just keeps getting better! There are always tests and trials but we must face them with miles and miles of smiles.

I am a very real person, I have a family like everyone else, and there are people, ideas, places and things that I hold as sacred.

I may be a Dominatrix (talking to those who judge) but I have values, standards, ethics, and principles. I also believe in living by a code of honor.

I care about the condition of the the world as well as my fellow human beings. I am very concerned about the state of things at this time which is why I want to contribute something positive and REAL.

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In regard to all that is kinky, I was young when I first began having fantasies that involved bondage, heels, and other kinky scenarios, long before I would act on them. Having talked with many other kinksters I have found this to be the case with other people as well. As a teenager I began to dress my male friends in my clothes which I enjoyed very much. I was sixteen when I tied someone up for the first time. None of these scenarios involved sex, rather an intense psychological scenario that I enjoyed and excited me. Later, when I moved to NYC I was 'officially' introduced to bdsm. Several years later when I moved to London England I would find LATEX and more exposure to bdsm. It all made perfect sense to me. Finding this lifestyle has been a very positive and enlightening experience.

I enjoy introducing bdsm to other people. This lifestyle can be an amazing catalyst for personal growth as well as a path to a more liberated understanding of one's sexuality.

Escape the shame!

I feel very fortunate to do what I do and that I enjoy it so very much!

~Domina Elle